some people may had double standard about selfishness, goodness, goodwill, or many other simple things that sometimes can be so complicated.
me.. i'm refer the situation.
days ago, a very best friend gave birth to a baby girl.
i didn't came quickly to meet her because i was away.
and then the next week, i call her to ask how's she's doing? and i want to came to visit her today.
but you know what............
she didn't pick up the phone, didn't answer the message i send her.
but with all the goodwill i still try to make a call.all morning.
and finally i got a text, it's her.
"i just had a baby, cannot see you"
still trying to talk to her, i re-call her.
and she's pick up the phone,
M : "hi there.. new mom's..." excitedly, i greet her.
but i heard her husband spoke from the other side.
H: "she's sleeping, exhausted,please not bother her" and he hang up the phone.
am i being selfish for angry to her.
i never meant to disturb her. i just wanna to know if she's okay.
and can came visit.
ok.. i fully understand that you've gone through a very dramatic situation, that's you feel a little of everything, and it's okay if you need sometimes to get alone
but can't you just show a little respect, over the goodwill.
maybe i didn't call at the right time, maybe i'm a little too late.
maybe i'm a little over sensitive.
but i'm still can not understand, the way she answer me..
she kinda like an alien. a stranger.
so am i selfish or what......